Have you noticed how every single women’s magazine has got some sort of headline advertising the latest way to “Please Your Man”? Or the secret to achieving “3 orgasms every night”?

Have you noticed how every single women’s magazine has got some sort of headline advertising the latest way to “Please Your Man”? Or the secret to achieving “3 orgasms every night”?

Listen, I think it’s great that there are resources out there helping us ladies find new tricks to reach that heavenly state but I think we’ve gone too far. I mean, after reading an article like “Try this trick tonight & he’ll be yours forever” I feel hella nervous! What if I don’t want him to be mine forever? What if I mess up the trick and wind up injuring him?!

Have we forgotten what it’s like to simply let things progress to a point that feels right? I mean, who’s to say it even needs to end with sex or that sex simply must end with an orgasm?

And forgive me if I’m going too far, but I’m young and in good shape but some of the positions these mags recommend...Even a gymnast can’t deliver those!

So ladies, next time you’re with your man don’t worry about pulling out all the stops. If it feels good for you I promise it’ll feel good for him. And if you’re both relaxed and in the moment that’s really all that counts.

Next week: Is romance dead?